It is a renowned formula that if a person is determent about his/her identity than he/she is a graceful personality۔ But, if a person is not determent about his/her identity than he/she is a confused person. Confused person can never be a graceful personality. Same is with Urdu Speaking Punjabis in Pakistan. Their subconscious is Punjabi but, due to the status of Urdu as an official and educational language and due to Urdu atmosphere for the need of their business necessities, consciously they try to adjust themselves to the Urdu atmosphere. Therefore, they always remain confused and if you talk with them in Urdu, due to their subconscious activation of instinct, they start to respond in Punjabi and if you talk with them in Punjabi, due to their conscious motivation for business, they start to respond in Urdu.