Man is called a social animal. Therefore, it is an obligation for every human being to interact and to build relations with society. While a person must have a home and a business.
But, it is not possible for a human being to improve life without learning 4 things;
1. To do interaction.
2. To build relationships.
3. To do business.
4. To manage family.
The vast majority of human beings start their lives by doing business and managing family without learning how to interact and how to build relationships.
People also have difficulty in doing business and managing family due to being unaware of the procedures to do interaction and to build relationships.
A good business and a good family environment are only possible in a condition; When a person knows how to interact and how to build relationships.
Classification of Interaction.
To do interaction, we meet people and "Regard" because of their age and relationship, "Respect" because of their wealth and skills, "Honour" because of their authority or character, "Admire" because of their knowledge and wisdom.
1. What is Regard?
"Regard" is a moral act. "Regard" is done because of the relationship between humans and age difference. "Regard" is a physical movement that; Someone should be watched carefully and listened to attentively.
We need to follow protocols externally and behave politely. So the "Regard" is to pay attention;
To look and listen closely or attentively to a person.
To look upon or consider in a specified way to a person.
To consider and appraise usually from a particular point of view to a person.
2. What is Respect?
The status of "Respect" is higher than "Regard". "Respect" is an informal act. "Respect" is about one's social status due to one's wealth and skills. While "Respect" is also the foundation of our relationship.
"Respect" is an attitude and a feeling towards a person. Based on "Respect", one's opinion about an individual is shown to others.
"Respect" is a person's status or a person's position. Which can vary from person to person.
"Respect" is the value of a person because of his abilities, qualities or achievements.
"Respect" is more "Regard" and esteem for a person to make stand out that;
There is a sense of manifestation for a person.
There is a sense of excellence for a person.
There is a sense of proper acceptance of a person.
A consideration to have certain rights or privileges for proper acceptance or importance.
3. What is Honour?
The status of "Honour" is higher than "Respect". "Honor" is a formal act. "Honour" refers to one's social status due to one's authority or character.
"Honour" is a person's social status or position which is a combination of "Respect", pride and honesty.
"Honour" means recognition of importance or value. Honouring someone is a way of showing higher "Respect" to a particular person.
"Honour" is higher "Respect" and importance, especially in public;
To celebrate or give a reward, prize, or title to show more respect for someone.
To make proud and happy by doing or being something for someone.
To do what you promised or agreed to do for someone.
Making someone feel that you must do something for him/her because it is morally right, even if you do not want to do it.
4. What is Admiration?
The status of "Admiration" is higher than "Honour". "Admiration" is a formal act. "Admiration" is done because of man's knowledge and wisdom.
"Admiration" is usually an excessive or sincere compliment or tribute to someone.
"Admiration" is to think very highly or favourably for a person.
"Admiration" is a feeling of wonder, pleasure, or approval for a person.
"Admiration" is regarded with "Respect", "Honour" and warm approval to stare with wide eyes;
To have great affection for a person.
To have a preference or liking for a person.
To take an active interest in or be a supporter of a person.
"Admiration" is higher "Honour" and more important act;
To look upon with an elevated feeling of pleasure to a person.
To do which calls out approbation, love or reverence to estimate or prize highly to a person.
Categories of Relationship.
Humans want to live a life of respect, comfort and peace of mind.
1. Good family 🏘️, environment brings peace of mind.
2. Good business 💵 environment brings comfort.
3. Good social 👨👩👧👦 environment brings respect.
Therefore, people have to be busy in family, business and social circle.
But engagement in the family, business and social circles require relationships.
1. In the case of mutual temperament and mutual interest, a circle of family 🏘️ relationship is formed.
2. In the case of mutual temperament, a circle of social 👨👩👧👦 relationship is formed.
3. In the case of mutual interest, a circle of business 💵 relationship is formed.
People get close because of the resemblance of their temperament or interest. While people distance themselves due to lack of resemblance in their temperament or interest.
Therefore, temperament and interest have main importance in relationships.
Hence, relationships for family, business and social circles are categorised based on temperament and interest. That's why;
1. Family 🏘️ and business 💵 affairs are common to relatives in the form of harmony of temperament in family and harmony of interests in business affairs.
They admire each other, therefore, good joint family and joint business affairs bring peace of mind and comfort. These are first-class relationships among relatives.
2. Only family 🏘️ matters are common among relatives when there is the harmony of temperament in family affairs. While business 💵 matters are separate.
They honour each other, therefore, good joint family affairs bring peace of mind. These are second-class relationships among relatives.
3. Only business 💵 matters are common between relatives when there is a harmony of interest in business affairs. While family 🏘️ matters are separate.
They respect each other, therefore, good joint business affairs bring comfort. These are the third-class relationship among relatives.
4. Social 👨👩👧👦 and business 💵 affairs are common to non-relatives in the form of harmony of temperament in social and harmony of interests in business affairs.
They admire each other, therefore, good joint social and joint business affairs bring respect and comfort. These are the first-class relationship among non-relatives.
5. Only social 👨👩👧👦 matters are common among non-relatives when there is the harmony of temperament in social affairs. While business 💵 matters are separate.
They honour each other, therefore, good social joint affairs bring respect. These are the second-class relationship among non-relatives.
6. Only business 💵 matters are common between non-relatives when there is a harmony of interest in business affairs. While social 👨👩👧👦 matters are separate.
They respect each other, therefore, good business joint affairs bring comfort. These are the third-class relationship among non-relatives.
7. Relatives or non-relatives do not get along when there is no harmony of temperament and no harmony of interests.
In this case, not only family 🏘️ and social 👨👩👧👦 but business 💵 matters are also separate. Therefore, relationships are only of a moral 🙋 nature.
They only regard each other, therefore, lack of good family, social and business affairs, not bring peace of mind, respect and comfort. These are the fourth-class relationship between relatives and non-relatives.
8. Relatives or non-relatives have a hostile relationship due to a clash of temperament or clash of interests. In such a case, the relationships are of enmity ⚔️.
They hate each other, therefore;
1. Discomfort is caused by a clash of business affairs.
2. Disrespect is caused by a clash of social affairs.
3. Distress is caused by a clash of family affairs.
These are the fifth-class relationship between relatives and non-relatives.
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